Club No 1996

Club No 1996

Tuesday, 17 December 2019

"LAUREL TAKES THE CAKE!"


Craig as toastmaster was suitably attired with sparkly red bow, for the last meeting of the year, on the 12th of December. Chocolates and juice were on hand. We were warned on the quality of jokes!


Graeme honked his horn. 
Paula ran a fabulous table topics Christmas session - highlighted diversity of the club, by encouraging the sharing of Christmas stores, traditions, how it’s celebrates, with in different cultures. Everyone had a go and it went overtime but it was real treat to hear so many different perspectives on Christmas.  Michael – delightfully naughty, Graeme’s was not a tale of cheer, Peter spoke about his sikh taxi driver and the diversity of his friends and there was a great camping story by Hannah, of no tent poles and Dad growing crankier and duly won best table topic.  Mehran and Shahar spoke of gifts of money for the kids at the New Year in Iran. 
Patrick hated Christmas and the cold and Israel warmed up to his version of camping with kids, a lot warmer than Northern Mexico.

Well done Paula on getting everyone up to speak!

Sandy did a very inclusive and positive evaluation, acknowledging rich traditions and wide variety and diversity of how members celebrate Christmas and New Year’s

Sahar introduced Laurel, went through the objectives for her talk on from the Dynamic Leadership Pathway.

Sahar showed how much she has developed as an evaluator.  She said she was daunted evaluating someone of Laurel’s calibre so admitted her vulnerably. She carefully set up the objectives and gave Laurel both a thorough introduction and evaluation, commenting on what were the highlights for her and commending her on meeting the objectives.   Sahar won the best evaluator and Laurel unsurprisingly the best speaker award.

Laurel being the only speaker and started with the following hook ‘Mrs Francis you have to be cruel to kind’. This set the framework for her life in terms of feeling unworthy from an early age. She talked how the brain believes it’s unworthy but how you can use tools and metaphors to reframe it. She talked about how this led her to studying neuro-semantics and to becoming a practitioner and corporate coach.  She shared the metaphor of the seat belt, of fighting the resistance with competing commitments and the importance of owning all your own emotions ‘good,’ ‘mad’, ‘sad’ and ‘bad’.  Laurel has the ability to cut through to the audience with a strong, powerful, clear message, to be vulnerable to share a story and to make a point.

Laurel featured prominently next as well, as Craig read her ‘Do you Believe in Santa’, a poem she originally wrote in December 1994.  Craig really bought the poem to life, he used modulation very effectively, which is the use of pause, pace, pitch and volume to lift the words off the page.  He revelled in using a louder voice for ‘pandemonium’, lower pitch for ‘quietly creeping around’ voice for, quicker pace for ‘devilish grin and ‘angelic face’.  An outstanding job!  It was thoroughly enjoyed, and there were calls to have it illustrated and published. 
This meeting highlighted the strengths and vast talents of Pania members the rich diversity of backgrounds and experiences.

Arohanui and have a wonderful Christmas, New year’s, holiday, however, and wherever you celebrate it

It’s great to have Hannah and Peter as new members
Next meeting on the 23rd of January.


Anna Coleman

Confidence Coach
Confidence Company
0211503517

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